The bond we share with our pets is powerful, unconditional, and deeply personal. When they pass away, the loss can be profound. Yet not everyone understands this grief — especially those who haven’t experienced such a connection. At Pet Divine, we want to reassure you that your feelings are valid and your pain matters.
Grieving the loss of a pet is not something to brush aside. It deserves care, compassion, and understanding — just like any other form of grief.
There is no right or wrong way to grieve, and no fixed timeline. Everyone’s journey is different. What you feel is real, and it matters.
Here are some common emotions pet owners may experience after a loss:
Anger: You might feel angry at a vet, family member, or even yourself.
Guilt: “What if I’d noticed sooner?” or “Could I have done more?” are natural thoughts.
Shock: A sudden or accidental loss can leave you feeling dazed and unprepared.
Denial: If your pet is nearing the end, it’s common to resist or question the advice to say goodbye.
Sadness or Depression: Grief may bring overwhelming sorrow. If this persists or affects daily life, it’s important to seek professional help.
💬“Grief is the price we pay for love.” – Queen Elizabeth II
If you’re struggling with the loss of your pet, please don’t suffer in silence. Below are trusted pet bereavement support services we recommend:
A UK-based support platform that helps owners prepare for and cope with pet loss. It provides guidance before, during, and after saying goodbye. This resource aims to guide you in planning for this difficult time; help you make the right decisions; provide clear and accessible information; help you cope with the passing of your beloved pet.
Offering free, confidential emotional support by trained advisors. You can call their Pet Bereavement Support Service (PBSS) or use live chat. 📞 Support Line: 0800 096 6606. 💬 Live Chat available on their website
This resource is an online forum providing a wide range of support within an active online community, including heartfelt stories, memorials, and peer-to-peer grief advice. Named after a beloved pet rabbit, Ralph.
While grief can feel isolating, remembering your pet in meaningful ways can offer comfort. Here are some ideas to support your healing:
🌟 Create an Online Tribute: Share memories and photos of your pet on our Pet Tribute Pages
🕯️ Light a Virtual Candle: Symbolically honour their memory on special dates
💌 Write a Letter or Poem: Express how much they meant to you
💖 Make a Donation in Their Name: Support an animal charity or cause they inspired
🌿 Plant a Tree or Flower: Create a living memorial
Grieving is not about “getting over it” — it’s about finding a new way to carry your love forward.
If you find that grief is interfering with your daily life — affecting your sleep, eating, relationships, or mental health — it may be time to speak to a bereavement counsellor or support group. This is not a sign of weakness. It’s a step toward healing.
At Pet Divine, we honour every pet’s memory and every pet owner’s story. Whether you’re in the early stages of grief or seeking ways to celebrate your pet’s life, you are not alone.
If you need help creating a memorial or want to connect with support services, please contact us.
Your pet mattered. Your grief matters. And so do you. 💚